I won't go back so far as to talk about how snail mail groups worked because it doesn't matter. Technology changes but human nature doesn't. My first online post was on Usenet which I think is still around in some form. I had bdsm fantasies and was looking for someone to tie me up and do whatever he wanted to do with me. Stupid, stupid, stupid. I had no idea about limits and what anything meant. I assumed anyone that was interested would somehow know exactly what was going through my mind.
I said the same naïve things throughout the years as I explored new kinks.
Fast forward to the present. I joined OwnedFags at the same time I joined other sites looking to fulfill a specific need. I assumed the tip transfer system here was similar to the tips I sent to Men on the video performance sites. Stupid, stupid, stupid! 😂 Age does not guarantee insight or wisdom. Sending 10 tips to a stranger felt like a big deal to me. I did not have good experiences and was 30 minutes away from deleting this account until I took a chance on the one Man who didn't take advantage of me as a newbie. It's unfortunate that we're not still together but I'm still here and learning from my current owner, The MasterOfAll.
Good things happen when effort is put by both ends into going past the immediate reward and developing something great. Glad you changed your mind and you did not delete your account, jeffie!
Thanks Jeffie, always interested to see / hear / read another perspective. I've felt like hitting the delete button here on occassions, the things that have changed my mind were never tips / money. On those ocassions I looked further and saw a few things that I truly value ... humour, and empathy. This site, this community, this culture, this fetish, this kink can be about so much more if one takes the time to scratch the surface. At my age, I have no desire to be a 'time waster', pragamitism tells me the older one is the less one has to waste. Ironically a pragmatic approach would align with the concept that 'slow and steady wins the race' in that time invested astutely can return dividends that are truly extraordinary. Jeffie, I can offer you nothing more than my thanks you did not hit the delete button.Thanks Jeffie, always interested to see / hear / read another perspective. I've felt like hitting the delete button here on occassions, the things that have changed my mind were never tips / money. On...See more
