For a while now, I have felt like being a cold hearted bastard with subs, I want to be as cruel, vicious & violent with subs but at the same time ensure they are ok. There is some extreme play I would like to do (use imagination for my extreme play) and really have fun with it/see if I like it, I have done one form of extreme play years ago and loved it and want to do it again but also extend my extreme play as well. I want to have full TPE over a sub where I fully control his life and spending habits, really put him under the thumb.