When I came to this wonderful website, the second time around, in the first few hours I was encouraged to leave the site and head to another platform. I smiled. I understood the ‘game’. The ‘Dom’ who insisted I walked away from this site so that MasterOfAll would receive nothing for his incredible efforts, then demanded, within the first few seconds of our engagement, £100. The Dom wasn’t remotely interested in me, he didn’t care whether I was happy or not, he wanted money. I declined his demand and he was churlishly, childishly furious and has tried, at occasional intervals, to convince me and more importantly himself, that what he was doing was right and that I am a fool.

What a load of old bollocks! There are no rules in this findom world. Everyone, whether Dom or sub, chooses their own unique path. I don’t subscribe to the rules set by others and that makes a great many men quite cross. For them, I have only this to say: I don’t care. I have my own rules, designed to keep me safe in a dark, deceptive world. Treat me with respect and you’ll receive my respect. Treat me like a fool and I’ll assume you are a fool. Behave impatiently, ungraciously, greedily and with an uncalled-for callousness and I will slam the door in your face. I'd rather be alone and unowned forever than to be the slave of a liar.

I'm submissive but not everywhere, and I’m here to find a good man and to give to him the best of myself. The best isn’t just cold, easy money but care, respect, devotion, decency and even my love. I'm not easy but treat me honestly, patiently, compassionately and who knows, I might be all yours…