The last 4 weeks or so have been a bit of a whirlwind to say the least!
Three months before our first anniversary we started discussing how to take things to the next level in our findom relationship . We’d talked a lot about a formal contract and agreed it was something we both wanted to do …. But how would it work? Would it be too chastising, too rigid and remove the excitement of impromptu fun?
We drew up a core contract template with the basics, and then spent lots of time together talking through the specifics that we wanted from it . We ended up breaking it down into two parts: debt and ownership. So far, so good!
Ownership : we agreed all the principles of ownership that were important to us ; daily communication , first and last message of the day to be to the boss. But what else ? Location services on , the boss should always know where I am . All good 😉. Access to all financial information? Of course , debit cards , credit cards etc … all fine . Nailed it . Only serve the boss? … it hardly needs to even be written down , but let’s put it in for completeness! Earn for the boss …. Not just professionally but as a Switch. All of that money I drain from subs? Straight into the bosses big hands of course!
The debt
We agreed a figure using dice on telegram. (Guess the number of dice for each figure 😂) All a game of chance … what would the number come out at?! The excitement was unreal! And the number ? Just so fucking hot! 🥵. A big sacrifice , regular , like clockwork!
But that wasn’t all .. lots of clauses based on the bosses lucky number … 11% tax on every day life! Food , drink , bonus , luxury goods purchases. Daily / monthly use of debit and credit cards. It’s all in there. Formalised, finalised!
So I was all set to go , knew what I was doing until the boss threw in a BIG curveball , mandatory tasks he had created that meant more money is added to the principle , and he can invoke them at any time… so I could spend weeks paying off the debt only for him to tell me to do a task and I’m either back to square one , or the principle balance even increases! This update was added into the document whilst we were down the pub in the beer garden! I could hardly say no could I?
There was something really amazing about going through the final draft in the middle of the pub with people around us . We just talked it through as if it was the most normal conversation in the world . And my willingness to agree to all the terms just showed how genuine our findom relationship is . It just added to the excitement and commitment!
We decided to film us chatting through some of the contract and posted it . The reaction has been crazy! We were just hanging out being us, but we were both blown away by the feedback from people. Some of the clauses have already been invoked and have already generated some really hot fun . Others are about to start and the excitement and anticipation is another level.
I really enjoy having a pint with the boss but now I know That everytime I do, there will be a task and a big addition to the debt amount, and that makes it even more exciting!
I had to perform a task whilst the boss read back the final draft. Once that was completed, we both signed on the dotted line and raised a toast to us . It was like there was no one else around !
A year into this and things just keep getting better and more exciting ! I’ve said it before but I’ll say it again . Find the right connection and findom can be incredible . The boss makes me laugh every day. He appreciates me. We have built so much trust together. We play with subs together and have a lot of fun with it . Every day in findom is different, but the constant is him. Inspiring , bringing the best out in me. I know he’s proud to own me , and that drives me to do my best every single day. He’s the fire to my fuse.
Wish us luck with this new chapter guys . Enjoy yourselves 🔥
