10/10, not just a date to remember. But also how I feel after my first longer chat with a fag here, resulting in a bit of ATM leaking. Is it the amount that got me absolutely pumped up? Oh hell, no. I’m not gonna pay my monthly costs with 50 tips. But that’s not what this is all about. And that’s why I wanna share my experience here. To show people (you know who you are) that findom is not about degrading slaves and fags or about grabbing money without working hard. It’s about cherishing and celebrating the obedience of a fag, letting them flourish in obedience. But above all: it’s about both enjoying life together with a touch of adrenaline. Or better said: a lot of adrenaline. After all..findom is just like any other risky kink: It’s the thrill of it. The magic happening when a fag and a slave get in contact and feel there’s a connection. Something which is difficult to describe in words. It’s as if the fag found a safe haven to be itself and the Master is able to break through that brick wall more easily, because the fag feels comfortable and good.

And that’s exactly what we both felt yesterday evening.

After a casual chat we started talking about past (BDSM) experiences and how they made us who we both are today. Discussing Dom/sub dynamics, but also about respect. Such a fundamental thing in any relationship. Not just vanilla relationships, but also bdsm relationships or (more relatable to everyone here) findom relationships. Respect is what drives us. Just think about it, do you like talking to someone who has no respect for you? Of course you don’t. Everyone likes to be surrounded by people supporting them, showing them respect, letting them feel good and safe. I could have started the conversation yesterday about how I feel that fag is inferior, not worth my time until tributing, being a fucking loser without having anything to be proud of. 

But that wouldn’t get me far. And apart from that, that is simply not true. Everyone has something he can be proud of. Yes, also fags. Their obedience is a gift to the world, which comes with sacrifices to please Alpha’s. Fags can be proud of that! They’re in a vulnerable situation, and it can feel daunting, scary or nerveracking for them to let out their true inner feelings. But still they’re here to show it every day! They take the risk and serve, with real consequences. Hard earned money leaving their wallets and bank accounts, getting it in the hands of those who rightfully receive it. And that gets my respect! In this world, where money is a big drive, it deserves an applause when a fag is still accepting it’s purpose and serves an Alpha financially. And it’s not about the amount. It’s about the dynamic behind it, the respect for each other, resulting in a safe space, where we both can get that adrenaline high we all crave for here. That rush of excitement and euphoria when a fag’s wallet is being split open. It’s addictive and so fucking strong! So it was an absolutely incredible moment yesterday when a fag found that safe space with me, showing his respect to me by tributing. From the moment he contacted we both knew that’s where it’s money belonged after all, but it felt like a reminder again it all starts with respect and love for the thrill findom creates. To be absolutely fucking continued! 😈