So you give yourself's name like "littlefaggot" and you put in your profile that your into "Humiliation" and so I send you a message like "little faggot get crawl over here and beg for me not to a***e you" and yet you react has if someone has done something that bothers you. Why the fuck did you give your self's that name in the first place!!! If you don't want something then don't ask for it with the name you chose and the things you say you like. Be honest with your self and others and you will get what you want not what your profile says you want when you don't want it.
Justin yes but the point is people need to be honest about what they want so that we can check for basic compatible things first. No point in saying "i'm into Humiliation" and then saying we'r not compatible (as some have done) if you get the message "I piss over you"Justin yes but the point is people need to be honest about what they want so that we can check for basic compatible things first. No point in saying "i'm into Humiliation" and then saying we...See more
bythabalz My post is more about telling the truth about your self than it is about what you do as a sub. What I was talking about comes long before (as you put it) the post-orgasmic "hangover". It's more about understand the words you use to discribe your self in your profile and accepting the conserquences of using such words. For example don't get upset at being all a piss poor faggot if you have used the "Humiliation" . It has very little to do with what happens in after and nothing to do with "cash slavery" or other games.
As for the question of spam and fishing e-mail/messages I would agree that after a person or faggot has said "Sorry Sir I am not into serving you" or something like that then that should be respected and I totaly agree with being able to "bow out gracefully," but so many just stop insteed of giving a graceful and respecful bow out message.
chastitymancs I'm 100% I with you but your replay has nothing to do with my blog post post. Your very clear about what you want and have accepeted 100% what you ask for.
Yes naziSSkin I agree but I am talking about profiles and first responces in cyber. So if you have the would "Humiliation" in your profile I would not expect a good replay if any if I sent a message that started "Hello I do hope you don't mind me saying that I think your a really good looking guy" LOL.
As for skilful this can not be juged within the first messages and my post was talking about the first one or two messages. I say this because no one can guss right at what will be well recived the fist time 100% of the time, (in cyber) it takes a conversation for both sides to mold there replays to fit the dynamic.bythabalz My post is more about telling the truth about your self than it is about what you do as a sub. What I was talking about comes long before (as you put it) the post-orgasmic "hangover&quo...See more
As for the question of spam and fishing e-mail/messages I would agree that after a person or faggot has said "Sorry Sir I am not into serving you" or something like that then that should be respected and I totaly agree with being able to "bow out gracefully," but so many just stop insteed of giving a graceful and respecful bow out message.
chastitymancs I'm 100% I with you but your replay has nothing to do with my blog post post. Your very clear about what you want and have accepeted 100% what you ask for.
Yes naziSSkin I agree but I am talking about profiles and first responces in cyber. So if you have the would "Humiliation" in your profile I would not expect a good replay if any if I sent a message that started "Hello I do hope you don't mind me saying that I think your a really good looking guy" LOL.
As for skilful this can not be juged within the first messages and my post was talking about the first one or two messages. I say this because no one can guss right at what will be well recived the fist time 100% of the time, (in cyber) it takes a conversation for both sides to mold there replays to fit the dynamic.bythabalz My post is more about telling the truth about your self than it is about what you do as a sub. What I was talking about comes long before (as you put it) the post-orgasmic "hangover&quo...See more