A very short blog about cyber play and the need to be committed. You see the thing about cyber is both sides can pull the plug. So now you see; we have nothing to fear but our self's. One fear is the fear of being out of control. Are we out of control as a slave? Masters want slaves to be out of control because they need to have control. Slaves wants this because they need to be controlled. What we both need though is just enough fear in the slave so that it takes our control but not too much that it panics and runs off. This brings us to the need for balance in real life meet this is trust but in cyber it's much harder to find that balance and it takes a much harder slave not the pull the plug.