And if everything is clear with the financial part, then the psychological part is another level. If a person is broken psychologically, it is almost impossible to help him, it is not a physical pain that passes over time, it is a pain that can be with a person for the rest of his life and will never heals.
A person can break physically, but psychologically remain strong, nothing will stop him, but if it is a psychological injury, then it cannot be treated, it can only be calmed down for a while, like some medicine. Therefore, many thanks to everyone who helped me in this, your kindness will not be forgotten and will return many times over.I think this is a good start. Back to the blog. Today marks exactly six months since I got acquainted with such a term as findom. Since these six months, almost 5 months, I spent on the OwnedFags.com site, I learned a lot about the very concept of findom, about life related to findom and people who are also in this community.
I still have a lot to learn, but even in such a short time I learned some factors:
1) Findom is addictive. Both from the Dom side and from the sub side. During these six months, I did not visit the site only a few times. It's a big world with different people who like what they do, it's almost like a computer game, but in reality. Perhaps the word "game" will be a very rude statement, but there is a grain of truth in it.
2) Many people do not understand the concept of findom. This also applies to everyone in this community. Dom believes that, being Dom, every sub should pay him whatever amount he wants, simply because he was registered as a dominant. Because he's Dom, and that's all. "All the money for me", "his fault", because he wanted it that way, he is not interested in rejection, he considers himself number one, simply because he was born that way...
FILL IT OUT - there will always be a person who will be better than you in everything you know and know, he will be stronger, he will be better mentally, he will be better intellectually, he will be smarter, he will... No one in this life owes you anything, all people are free and have the right to do what they want. Don't be an asshole, there are a lot of people like you and they think the same. Nothing is free in this world, you have to work hard to get something. If you are interested in money, be smarter, develop a strategy and act so that everyone is satisfied.
As for the sub, it's practically the same. This is financial domination, no one will fulfill your dirty fantasies for free. You have to pay for what your Dom wants. Do not waste the time of other people who want to make a connection with you. You are not the only one. No one makes you to pay an amount that you cannot repay. Everything has its price, and in financial domination it is one of the key parts.
And most importantly, findom is a relationship, one-time or long-term, it all depends on the people. Everyone fulfills his role in it and has what he has.
3) Online relationships and real life relationships are a big difference. Everything is clear here, everything is like in life. Online relationships are a fun stage of getting to know each other for a short period of time. But fŃndom in real life is already different, different emotions, different relationship, interest and so on...
Unfortunately, I didn't have the opportunity to experience it, but everything is possible.
That's all.
I hope you understand what I wanted to write. Thanks to everyone who read this post. Have a nice day everyone and be yourself
This blog will have a topic that will probably never go away with the findom community - toxic people.
The most retarded, obnoxious and probably the dumbest people in fŃndom.
On this site, in six months, I saw many different people, with different characters, behavior, philosophy, life, and so on. All of them are unusual, with their own history and principles of life, each different and each interesting in its own way. It seems that everything is perfect, but on this scene they appear - toxic. It is difficult to comment on what kind of people these are, but in general they are unpleasant people. And to my surprise, there are many of them not only among Dom, but also among subs who purposefully came to the site to obey others. If it's a Dom, then that's understandable, but being male doesn't make you dominant, or a Dom, or anything but an creature, even worse, creatures can understand and some Doms can't. A real dominant can only be a person who proved all this not in words, but in deed, with his authority, skill, position in society and many other things. Be people, not creatures.
And now about some subs, well, if Dom is doing it, he chose such a role, but he has no knowledge, then how to explain some subs... Complete disrespect both to his colleagues and to authoritative Doms on the site. This is just nonsense, I understand that there are different situations, events, emotions and much more, but when it is on a permanent basis, then many questions arise. The main thing is that you have forgotten here, if you do not follow the rules and behave, in the best case, as an egoist. Many questions remain for both sides, but for another time for sure.
At the end of this small blog, I will say - personally, fortunately, I have not met such people on the site, I received all the stories from other people on the site and in other applications. Fortunately, a large number of such individuals, I am informed, have already left the site, but not all.
Also, no one objects to your presence on the site, you don't need to wear someone else's mask, be yourself, but remain human and have at least some moral values.
That's all, thank you for your attention, everyone have a nice day, fun, entertainment and health ššš
Conclusion:
Depression is a silent battle that can affect anyone, regardless of their involvement in the findom community. By shedding light on this often-overlooked aspect, we can encourage open discussions, support one another, and promote healthier mindsets within the findom world. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a step towards reclaiming control, finding healing, and fostering personal growth. Together, we can create a community that understands and supports each other in the face of depression's daunting challenges.
Thank you all for watching, have a nice day everyone and more cheerful mood āļø
Oh, baby, let me take you on a journey through the explicit encounter I had with my disobedient sub. They couldn't resist testing my limits, and I was more than ready to show them the consequences of their actions.
As I entered the room, the air was thick with anticipation. The sub stood before me, eyes downcast, on their knees, knowing they had crossed a line. My voice dripped with authority as I commanded them to strip, revealing their naked vulnerability.
With a devilish grin, I picked up the paddles, each one promising a different level of intensity. I started with a gentle tap, building the anticipation. Their skin reddened with each strike, but it only fueled my desire for more. I reveled in the power I held over my cumrag, knowing that every flick of my wrist sent waves of pleasure coursing through their body.
But punishment wasn't enough to satiate my hunger. I craved their surrender, their complete obedience. I ordered them to open wide, and with firmness, I gagged them, rendering them unable to speak. Their muffled cries of pleasure only heightened the intensity of the moment, a symphony of desire echoing throughout the room.
In search of new heights, I introduced them to the world of watersports, exploring the taboo nature of urine play. The warm streams cascaded over their body, mingling with their moans of ecstasy. The sensation of being drenched in my golden shower pushed them deeper into subspace, their senses overwhelmed by the unapologetic indulgence in their most forbidden desires.
But we both craved more, a deeper connection, a more intimate union. With meticulous care, I prepared them for the ultimate act of penetration ā fisting. Slowly, I stretched their eager opening, inch by inch, until they were fully impaled by my hand. Their body yielded to my touch, the sensation of being completely filled driving them to the brink of ecstasy. It was an act of absolute surrender, a testament to their complete trust in me.
And let's not forget about the intoxicating world of Findom. As their ultimate Dom, I asserted control over their finances, exploiting their submissive desires to serve and please me. They willingly opened their wallets, showering me with monetary tributes and gifts, fulfilling their desire to be financially dominated. The power exchange intensified, as their obedience extended beyond the physical realm and into the realm of their bank accounts.
Together, we danced on the edge of pleasure and pain, exploring the boundaries of our desires, both in the physical and financial realms. The room was filled with the sounds of slaps, moans, and the intoxicating scent of sex, while the allure of Findom added an extra layer of power dynamics to our encounter. It was an encounter that pushed the limits of our connection, leaving us both trembling in the aftermath of such intense pleasure.
Let me know if anyone would like to see the video or take a chat with me ;)
In the fascinating world of financial obedience, the connection between the Dominant and the submissive is fundamental. Today, I want to talk about how this dynamic can be not only exciting but also deeply enriching.
1. Intimacy Through ExchangeEvery financial transaction is more than just an exchange of money; itās an act of trust and surrender. I invite you to explore how you can experience a deeper connection through your obedience. Imagine being able to share your desires and needs in a way that makes you feel valued and understood.
2. Beyond the TransactionFinancial obedience isnāt just about giving money; itās about creating an emotional bond. Iāll discuss how you can be part of a dynamic where your financial support becomes a form of expression of your loyalty and devotion. Each contribution can hold a deeper meaning beyond the material aspect.
3. Establishing Boundaries and ExpectationsItās crucial to set clear boundaries and expectations so that both parties feel comfortable and satisfied in the relationship. Iāll share tips on how to communicate effectively, ensuring that each interaction is positive and rewarding. This is the key to building a lasting and exciting relationship.
4. Success Stories and TestimonialsNothing is more inspiring than hearing real experiences. Iāll share stories of submissives who have found a special connection in their financial obedience dynamics. These testimonials not only illustrate the potential of this relationship but can also motivate you to take the next step.
5. Getting to Know Me BetterIf youāre interested in exploring this connection, I want you to know that Iām here to guide you on your journey. I invite you to get to know me more deeply, discovering how we can create a unique and satisfying relationship. Together, we can elevate your financial obedience to new heights, where every contribution is not just an act of surrender, but a step toward an exciting and transformative experience.
I'm here for you
Financial obedience is an art that requires communication, trust, and genuine connection. If youāre ready to take the next step and discover how we can create something special together, donāt hesitate to reach out. Iām excited to meet you and explore this dynamic in depth.
In the Findom world many claim to be subs, but few truly
understand what it means to be a good sub. For a sub to catch my
attention and earn my ownership, it takes more than just an eager attitude it
requires unwavering loyalty, consistency, and a deep understanding of their
role in serving their superior. From my perspective as an Alpha, being a good sub isn't just
about obeying orders or fulfilling tasks. Its about offering more than just
your obedience it's about how you submit. A sub who knows their place
doesnāt need constant reminders. They anticipate my needs, understand my
expectations, and act without hesitation.
Loyalty Above All
A good sub is loyal, unwavering in their devotion. This isnāt just about
showing up once and disappearing. Consistency is key. Your role as a sub is to serve
me, day in and day out. When I say jump, you jump. When I demand tribute,
you send without question. A good sub doesn't need a daily reminder they do it
because they understand the privilege of serving an Alpha like me.
Regular Tributes Without Excuses
Tributes are non-negotiable. A good sub knows their place and regularly shows
their devotion through silent tributes. Theres no need for fanfare or requests
for praise. When you silently send, you're proving you re serious. Tributes
should be consistent, regular, and without excuses. This is how you show me
that Iām always on your mind, that I own every aspect of your life, including
your finances.
Engagement and Respect
Being a sub isn't about being a mute follower, but a good sub is
interesting and engaging when I want them to be. You should know when to speak
and when to keep quiet. Engage with me, show respect, but understand that I
dictate the pace of our interactions. Your respect for my time and energy is
paramount. Donāt waste my time with trivial nonsense. Be smart, be sharp, and
understand the balance between serving and being a nuisance.
Silent, but Present
A good sub is present, always. You don't need to shout for attention or beg for
my acknowledgment. When you send that tribute, itās a silent declaration of
loyalty, of obedience. A good sub doesnāt need validation for every act they
know that each send, each service, brings them closer to earning my approval.
Know Your Role
At the core of being a good sub is understanding your role. You are here to
serve, not to be served. Your purpose is to enhance my life, to ensure my
satisfaction, and to find your fulfillment through obedience and service. Your
life becomes about pleasing me, both financially and mentally. If you canāt
handle that, you're not cut out to be a good sub.
In findom as with any kink there are two distinct sides the Dominant Masters and the submissive slaves. Two opposing roles with clearly defined wants needs and boundaries which is easy to understand and everyone feels at ease. But then there is the third option the grey-area that exists in between the switch those that have times when they feel dominant and need power and times when they need to surrender it. While everyone has their own opinions on switches and are they Doms or fags or any other term you want to use have you ever stopped to ask what itās like for the switch themselves?
Living with two opposing sides of myselfāone that craves dominance and another that yearns for obedienceāhas been both a struggle and a revelation. At times, it feels like Iām caught in a tug-of-war, with each side vying for control over my life and identity.
On one hand, my dominant self is assertive, confident, and fiercely protective. I thrive on making decisions, leading others, and taking charge of my environment. Itās exhilarating to feel that surge of power, to navigate challenges with a commanding presence. This part of me wants to conquer obstacles, to mould my surroundings to fit my vision. This side serves me well in my day job I have to admit.
Yet, the submissive side longs for a different kind of freedom. In these moments, I find comfort in letting go, surrendering to anotherās guidance. Itās a profound release, allowing someone else to take the reins while I embrace vulnerability. The paradox lies in the trust I cultivate during these experiences; it requires strength to submit, to reveal the softer layers of my being.
Navigating these dualities can be overwhelming. I often question which side defines me more profoundly. Am I stronger when Iām leading, or when Iām yielding? The truth is, both aspects are integral to my identity. They are not in opposition but rather two facets of a complex whole, and I often find myself wondering which side is ultimately in charge.
Iāve learned that balancing these sides is crucial for my mental and emotional health. I canāt thrive in one without acknowledging the other. Embracing this internal conflict has led me to a richer understanding of myself. Iāve discovered that the moments when I switch between these roles are not just about control; theyāre about connectionāboth to myself and to others.
Finding harmony between my dominant and submissive selves has become a personal journey of acceptance. Each side teaches me valuable lessons about strength, trust, and the beauty of vulnerability. Itās a continual process, one that allows me to grow and evolve.
In a world that often pressures us to fit neatly into boxes, Iāve found solace in my duality. I am both dominant and submissive, and this balance makes me who I am. Embracing both sides has allowed me to cultivate deeper relationships and a more authentic life, reminding me that itās okay to be a work in progress, still exploring which side might ultimately take the lead.
Iāve been on this site for a few years now, but lifeās been too hectic to fully commit to everything the fags expect. Between work, personal goals, and a busy schedule, keeping up with it all just wasnāt realistic. So from here on out, Iām switching things up. Iām going to start smashing the gym like never before. Pushing harder, lifting heavier, and transforming my body every day. Itās time to take things to the next levelāno excuses, just results. Letās get it!
After all, Iām an alpha.
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