I think there is a lot that can be said about the mental aspect of any dom, but findom in particular. While I respect those who decide to go the blunt route, I myself prefer the mental games that can be played with subs. Get them relaxed, get them comfortable. Perhaps catch them when they are drinking. Then start picking apart what makes them tick. Mend your words and your tone to really sell it home to them, make them believe that it is not you telling them, but them thinking of it themselves. Guide them in the direction you want, and with some patience and the right words, you could easily take whatever you wanted from them, and all they would do is say thank you. It's especially fun on a sub who is relapsing, since it makes the feelings they experience more potent and makes it easier for you to get what you want.
So how about it, subs? Want a guy who gets in your head? Then reach out to me.
