I find consent really hot. The idea of a submissive freely offering cash (or body) to use as I please, for no reason other than that he feels compelled to submit, horns me immediately. This is power exchange. Raw, taboo, sexy, affirming, full of life.
Of course, there are other darker themes around the same scenes - 'cash ****', 'b*******l', and more. Trying to find the right line, some are keen to add the word 'consensual' to those terms -- but that seems like a contradiction in terms: just because you can form the phrase doesn't mean it makes sense. I guess what people are trying to get at there is an element of role-play, in the first case, and a form of advance commitment in the second. This is edgier, but appeals to some I know: edgy because all sorts of law and protections surrounds all of these activities.
A bit of edge spices things up a bit, but a serious risk to my career, or to my credit rating, or even to my financial or other online accounts, is quite a mood killer. I want to be enjoying the financial domination game, not looking over my shoulder for a submissive who wants to make mischief or worse.
And sub behaviour is of course the other challenge here. If your capacity to consent is impaired - because you are deceived, or because you are mentally ill, or even because you suffer from serious low self-esteem issues, then please seek professional help and stay away from this community. On the other hand, if you fully have capacity, but tend to think with your cock, or you tend to get pissed and start sending tributes, I have no problem with taking your money.
Others will have different outlooks, and a different propensity to edginess. Find your appropriate level. As for me, a fully aware, capable consenting adult who serves me - preferably over and over again - is truly, deeply, fucking sexy.
[with apologies for triggering word filter warnings - fair enough]
Even better when a $ub uses its initiative in an unusual way which benefits the Ma$ter for example offering to take its Master away on holiday . Horny and yet rewarding for the Master whilst the $ub is drained pleasuring its Master
Yes, MD4C, the slave taking the initiative can be a great way of demonstrating consent to be drained -- though too much initiative will tend to push the Master into a corner and negate the power exchange.
Thanks for the comment RP. Yes, it certainly isn't as clear-cut as the consent classes would have it. Though in a truly sticky situation, a court would have to decide. And, as hinted in your comment, one of the recurring questions I've been asking for years is whether it can possibly make sense to say that someone consented (and continued to consent) to a headfuck: when the whole object of the exercise is an altered sense of what's true/right/good/whatever, in that altered state, who's to say what consent is. Again, the lawyers would start to talk about capacity: whether you were in a fit state to give or withhold consent. Ethics get you a long way: if you're going to let someone mess with your head, you should probably take similar precautions to those you would take if they are going to bind your hands, etc. But ultimately there are no guarantees in this life, and I suppose that's where the edge comes in.Thanks for the comment RP. Yes, it certainly isn't as clear-cut as the consent classes would have it. Though in a truly sticky situation, a court would have to decide. And, as hinted in your comment, ...See more
