I'v been having some play with a fag who is into "b*******l" and I go to thinking today when is b*******l not b*******l. I have to say true b*******l is not just illegal but also in my book quite wrong. Can you b*******l someone who wants to be b*******l. If the person freely gives you information and at the same times states that this is leverage over them then is it b*******l if you threaten to show or send that information to some one else, unless they pay you.
What if you never threaten any thing. Think about this. I have some pictures and some addresses and you know that is I send those pictures to the people at the addresses this may lead to problems. Say I prove to you I have the photos and the addresses and say nothing else. Say because of your own fear you offer to pay me to keep the photo's hidden. Have I just blackmailed you?
What if you give me the pics and you give me the right to use them as I will but then you pay me because I might post them some where you don't want people seeing them. If you pay me out of fear is that b*******l (I may still post them if you pay me or not because you gave them to me to own them to do what ever I want with them)?
If I never say "pay me or I'll do......." then can it be b*******l?
