When b*******l is not b*******l

I'v been having some play with a fag who is into "b*******l" and I go to thinking today when is b*******l not b*******l.  I have to say true b*******l is not just illegal but also in my book quite wrong.  Can you b*******l someone who wants to be b*******l.  If the person freely gives you information and at the same times states that this is leverage over them then is it b*******l if you threaten to show or send that information to some one else, unless they pay you.  

What if you never threaten any thing.   Think about this.  I have some pictures and some addresses and you know that is I send those pictures to the people at the addresses this may lead to problems.  Say I prove to you I have the photos and the addresses and say nothing else. Say because of your own fear you offer to pay me to keep the photo's hidden.  Have I just blackmailed you?

What if you give me the pics and you give me the right to use them as I will but then you pay me because I might post them some where you don't want people seeing them. If you pay me out of fear is that b*******l (I may still post them if you pay me or not because you gave them to me to own them to do what ever I want with them)?

If I never say "pay me or I'll do......." then can it be b*******l?   

In a suit

I when for a drive today, a cold day. Arriving at one of my favorite spots to park and have a smoke. Usually if I see another car parked I drive on, because I like to come here when I need some alone time.  Today I noted another car parked and a man in a suit standing at the cliff.  I don't know why I stopped but it is unusual to see any one in a suit there.  

So I parked in a way then when he turn round he would see me sitting in the car with the door open enjoying a panatela.   When he turned round I looked straight at him and took a big drag and puffed the smoke towards him.  From where I was parked he could have walked past my car without passing my door but he chose to walk to my door.  I took another puff of my cigcar but he did not turn away so I had a good idea that I was going to have some fun.  As he approached close I could have just given a simple "Hi" but I held up my hand as in a stop sign, closed my fingers and used my first finger to point to the ground.    I know, a bold move but you see I live on a island and know the faces of most of the people around and he is not one of them, so he must be visiting.  As it turned out he is on the island for Xmas and lives in Athens.  

Well he dropped to his knees into the dust (so his not only a desperate fag he's also into having he's suit ruined, O what fun).   I beckoned him to craw to me as he gets close I puff more smoke right at his face and rub my cock though me jeans, he starts to reach up to try get a rub him self. I soft kick his arm away and at the same time shake my head to say no and rub my fingers together in the universal sign for wanting money.  To my surprise he put his hand into his inside his jacket and pulled out his wallet.  With his head bowed he removed 20 euro and tried handing it to me, I rubbed my finders again as to say "MORE".  He offered another 20 and this time I took the 40 euro but as I needed a piss,  instead of allowing him a feel, I stood up unzipped. got my cock out and started pissing all over him, over his smart suit.  All I heard was a "please no" but I had started a good flow and was not going to stop until I finished and then I had a plain that I would wank off all over that suit to help ruin it.  So as the stream came to the end and I started (as any man dose) to shake I turned the shake in to a wank. he reached up to help and I slapped his hand away I'm not having any fag touch me, but I did let the fag stroke my balls as I cum over the suit.   He opened his mouth but the only words I said were "next time if you PAY! MORE!" Then I turned to go, as I got back in my car I herd "Sir please Sir when are you next here"  I just drove off.  

To be or Not to be (a bastard)

So you see a profile and you feel you want to see if the boy/slave/fag will engage with.  Well it may be simple thing if your (a bastard) you just send "get on your knees fag scum and serve ME!".  Then they replay "Yes Sir" That was easy and lets face it, it's easy because that's who you are and that's all good and fine.   But they may not say anything at all or they may replay with something like "do you get much by sending messages like that" and the point is you may have missed out one the best boy/slave/fag there has ever been.  

So as a more flexable and understanding Master you may say something like "I have seen your profile and you look like I could use you serving me."  Then they replay with "Yes Sir" That was easy and lets face it, it's easy because that's who you are and that's all good and fine.  But then.................and you have missed out of the best boy/slave/fag there has ever been.

You see some of us can be both understanding and a bastard depending on the boy/slave/fag and so this is the question; To be or Not to be (A Bastard) and the answer I have is be one or the other but if your a boy/slave/fag understand that just because the hot man you see sends a message in terms that you don't like it may be that all you have to do is replay in the way you do like and he may be the best Master you have ever had.  This is a two way street come on fags step up.  

Nothing to fear

A very short blog about cyber play and the need to be committed.  You see the thing about cyber is both sides can pull the plug.  So now you see; we have nothing to fear but our self's.  One fear is the fear of being out of control.  Are we out of control as a slave?  Masters want slaves to be out of control because they need to have control.  Slaves wants this because they need to be controlled.  What we both need though is just enough fear in the slave so that it takes our control but not too much that it panics and runs off.  This brings us to the need for balance in real life meet this is trust but in cyber it's much harder to find that balance and it takes a much harder slave not the pull the plug.       

The Master/Slave Parodox

Think about this.  A Msater wants/needs to be worshiped and adored but for truth a Master can not order this as much as he might try.  The wish to worship and adored a Master comes from within the slave.   A slave wants/needs to worship and adore a Master but the slave also needs to be controled and ordered    This is the pardox.  This first heardel in any Master/slave conection is getting past this.

Be carfull of what you DON'T ask for

We all have fears and nightmares even Masters (yes we do).   Let me share  with you all, a nightmare  I think some of us many have.   We know many boys/subs/slaves like to say things like "Sir I will do anything for you!" and we think GREAT.  Here's a boy that wants to serve, to give all I need to take all I want to dish out.  So we look at it's profile to see if we can get a handle on what things at what level will get the best for US and it.   Problem! the profile is small and/or almost blank.  This can only end in one of two ways GREAT or frustration for both the Master and boy.

Look on my profile and you will see two of my interests are Corporal Punishment(CP) and another is Cock t*****e(CT).   To all you slave boys out there that have a brain maybe you might think that I want to put these two things together so if you say "Sir I will do anything!"  You can expect that at some point maybe right at the start I will test you out on this.   So your on skype and things move to CP,  

boy: "Sir I got hard hearing your voice"

Sir: (GRATE)  "that hard-on needs to be punished boy" 

boy: "Sir yes Sir"

Sir: "right boy get your belt double it and rap it round you hand leaving about 6"

Sir:  "As you got hard hearing my voice boys penis need to be punished"  (I want to belt your penis)

boy: "Sir yes Sir"

Sir: "You will now belt that penis 6 times HARD!!! boy"

boy: (the sound of a smack)

Sir: "..COUNT! them out boy. Start again"

boy: (the sond of a smack) "1" (smack)

Sir "STOP! do you know how to count out wacks boy!? boy says {1 Sir} start again."

boy: "1 Sir" (smack) "2" (smack)

Sir: "STOP!!! you forgot the {Sir}  start again"

boy: "your ridiculous" (sound of the phone being hung-up)
boy has blocked Master

Now up to the end this I though was going well what  do you think?

This is the nightmare a boy who dose not say what he wants and then buggers off when he gets what he did not want!!! 

Shame on you boy not having the guts to say "Sorry Sir this is not working for me.". 
   

Not what you call your self.

So you give yourself's name like "littlefaggot" and you put in your profile that your into "Humiliation" and so I send you a message like "little faggot get crawl over here and beg for me not to a***e you"  and yet you react has if someone has done something that bothers you.  Why the fuck did you give your self's that name in the first place!!!  If you don't want something then don't ask for it with the name you chose and the things you say you like. Be honest with your self and others and you will get what you want not what your profile says you want when you don't want it. 

Master is not a mind reader

When slaves make first contact with a Master one of the things many slaves seem to have a problem with is answering questions.  This is something very hard on both side.  From the point of view the slave/faggot they don't want to be giving a list of things that they want a Master to do or ask for.  

The problem if the slave is not clear abot what it finds hot or not then a Master can end-up losing a slave because the slave is not fulfilled.   YES a slave may find the mere act of answering this as a turnoff but the Master is not a mind reader.
 
For a Master with a small number of interests this is not a problem.  Worship me because I'm the Man and you a faggot cunt,  Your a owned fag so I also own your money pay me it now.  Easy.  But if the Master has many interests that not all of which need to happen at the same time to be fulfilled, then it may be the case that on slave may be used for only one or two of the tings say piss and cum dump and another my focuse on CP.  It would be no good giving a CP slave piss/cum and the piss/cum dump CP.  Of cause the Master may want to but I think that if this swap happened all the time then it may all end in a nasty mess.

So my advice to slaves at the start of a relationship with a complex Master would be to have a short time of un-fulfillment to have a much longer time of completely fulfilled enslavement.  So when I Master asks "What turns you on?" don't think that by answering the question you are giving the Master a menu of things to choose from because a Master who asks this will not see it in this way. 

I hope this is helpfull.
Master Pete

How to not start a conversation with a Master

A sub send this message:

How old are you MAster? Are you looking for sexual stuff online as well, so a slave performing on cam? Or would you be ok with showing you (no nudity) on cam for a slave to worship and serve through financial domination Sir?

Not a good start.

How many lashing to give a slave

10 years back I meat my first slave who is still with me and will be for as long as we both live.  I was new at being a Master then as I started submissive always hot for CBT and not much into CP.  This slave is very much into CP but the problem was "How many lashing to give?".  So I set up punishment tables (10 lashing for that, 20 for this, plus 5 because I like and so on).  This is OK but!!! I hate fixing things and when it did not seem that slave had a good amount the table when out the window!

So now what works better is a time limit;  slave is ordered to the play room and now told how long the punishment/play will last but I have decided on a time say 10mins and in that time slave takes what every lashes Master gives.   The point is not punishment the point is I like to see the slaves has a red ass and I like to know that slaves ass stings for a long time.  Some times I like to see a little ***** (only a little).  

So to all you faggot slaves out there, if we meet for real you WILL leave with a red ass because thats what I like, even better if you don't like it.  You have to and will submit, you don't like it but you will even pay cash to get it and you know that.