How not to engage a sub

I had a dom warm me up but then be an absolute prick. As a sub, Do not demand. You need to warm us up. It's like any form of sex. If you shove it in too hard we won't be receptive.

Why do you think you can just plunder in without due care and attention?

You might get a quick tribute through being so reckless, but for any sustainability the dom needs to nurture and encourage a sub boy. 

Doms may think they hold the control, but subs can withdraw it any time if they are not feeling the same way. 

In conclusion, doms have the ultimate control when subs allow them to. 

If a sub decides to withdraw that, the dom should respect and work to get it back. 

Supporting subs

I have learned recently that subs (like me) have feelings too. A lot of iud like humiliation, trusting amd getting cashfucked. The thing is subs are also human. Subs need to protect their income and mental health. I think what I am trying to say here is if I sub only has a small amount or is dipping their toe in findom, don't make them. So recognise we are in a cost of living crisis so tributes may be lower or may not happen at all.

Subs are people. They may need support, understanding and aftercare. That aftercare is your responsibility as a dom.