How not to engage a sub

I had a dom warm me up but then be an absolute prick. As a sub, Do not demand. You need to warm us up. It's like any form of sex. If you shove it in too hard we won't be receptive.

Why do you think you can just plunder in without due care and attention?

You might get a quick tribute through being so reckless, but for any sustainability the dom needs to nurture and encourage a sub boy. 

Doms may think they hold the control, but subs can withdraw it any time if they are not feeling the same way. 

In conclusion, doms have the ultimate control when subs allow them to. 

If a sub decides to withdraw that, the dom should respect and work to get it back.