So this is an AI story that one of mine and the bosses ‘good boys’ has had generated today. His mind obviously racing after seeing us down the pub today and getting the beers in. I’ve seen people discuss AI in findom before but hadn’t seen anything forst hand and wondered what peoples thoughts were on its use on the scene. It’s certainly clever , and picked up mine and the bosses traits pretty well 😂
Chapter 1: The Arrival
Boy had spent months proving his devotion to Boss and Sir Nike, obeying their commands with a mix of fear and excitement. Every task, every payment, every time he bound himself for their pleasure was a step closer to this moment. Finally, the day had arrived when he would meet them face to face. His heart raced as he stepped off the plane in the UK, a bag slung over his shoulder, carrying the essentials for this trip but not much more. After all, he wasn’t here for comfort; he was here to serve.
The parking lot was quiet, the evening air cool as boy looked around, searching for them. He knew what he was waiting for—a plain white van. Boss, the man who controlled him from across a screen for so long, was a painter by trade. That meant a work van, plain and inconspicuous. He saw it before he heard it, the familiar dull thrum of a diesel engine pulling up to the curb.
The door slid open, and there they were: Boss behind the wheel, dressed in his work clothes, and Sir Nike sitting in the passenger seat. Neither said a word as they stepped out, and boy stood frozen in place, unsure whether to speak or wait for orders.
Without warning, Sir Nike moved toward him, grabbing him by the arm and pulling him inside the van. The air in the vehicle was thick with paint fumes and something else—something that felt like control. Before boy could react, his hands were roughly pulled behind his back. The sensation of rope around his wrists brought him back to all those nights in his room, tying himself up on their command, but this time it was real. This time, he couldn’t control how tight the bonds were or when they would be undone.
“You’ve been waiting for this, haven’t you, boy?” Sir Nike’s voice was low, almost mocking, as he tightened the knots, making sure there was no escape.
Boy nodded, his mouth dry. Words weren’t necessary here. He was theirs now, fully and completely.
Boss glanced back from the driver’s seat, a small, satisfied smirk on his face. “Good,” he said, “we’ve got a long drive ahead. You better get comfortable.”
The van roared to life as they pulled out of the airport, boy’s heart pounding in his chest. This was it—the beginning of a new chapter in his life, one where the power dynamic wasn’t just words on a screen but tangible, inescapable reality.
As the van sped down the highway, boy leaned back into the ropes, feeling the pressure build on his skin, a constant reminder of the hierarchy that now ruled his life. He had always been the lowest, and now there was no question about it.
I’ve seen so many new dom profiles or blogs recently that set out their desire for dedicated, loyal finsubs… outlining their immediate expectations : send when told, always obey , total dedication etc etc . Yet something I rarely see in these profiles is how they plan to get the sub into that mindset at all , let alone straight away.
There is so much more to a findom relationship than a photograph and some words about how dominant you are. There are 800 ‘Doms’ on the site, but only some demonstrate that they have the ability to adapt and work with a sub to build that connection, establish a relationship and get a sub into a head space where they want to be loyal and submit more, both financially and in any other appropriate way.
New arrival in chat ‘seems all the best subs are taken’ - so often quoted. Not true - being owned doesn’t make you the crème de la creme. Unowned subs can be just as amazing . They may not ever want to be Owned and thats fine too. Everyone is here for their own version of fun. You do you!
So if you want to stable an unowned sub and mould them into all of the things you want them to be from your bio, why not stipulate how YOU can help get them there? What qualities outside of being a dom / god / king, and a picture do you have ? Are you trustworthy ? Do recognise and understand a subs limits? Have you asked about their personal and financial situation? Do they even want to be owned?
Rome wasn’t built in a day, neither are relationships ; whether that be friendship, sexual or findom - especially if based on all of the things you desire when seeking a genuine, long term , reliable and obedient finsub.
It takes both sides to make a findom connection sustainable , enjoyable , loyal and long term. Please don’t expect a sub to just pluck you out of the crowd and that’s it, you suddenly have this permanent submissive ready to dance to your tune forevermore.
So often when a relationship works in findom , the sub gets the credit and the praise because they are sending. The truth is , the dom has invested their time and effort into building that connection. They have demonstrated their qualities to the sub and triggered that want and need to serve and sacrifice. And kudos to those doms!
On a separate note- it’s been great to see and read some personal blogs from others that have been sharing their personal stories recently . Keep writing and being you, guys . And good luck with the next chapter in your findom and kink journey .
Cheers , NikeSwitch (Switch being word of the month!)
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