An official denial

I'd like to address some rumours that have been going around in the last few days. That Slave, I meant to write, Cynic and myself are in fact the same person!

Yes, we are both obsessed with Master Zal (but then who isn't?) and dismayed at his continued and obstinate use of towels and other fabrics to cover up his family jewels. Yes: we are both blessed/cursed with ENORMOUS cocks. Yes: we both tend to see the (usually intentional) amusing/funny in some posts and pictures, and having incurred the wrath of several masters with a sense-of-humour bypass, luckily survived a number of clumsy assassination attempts. Yes, we never seem to be in the chat room at the same time. BUT we are not the same entity!

Fortunately, I don't have Slave’s Cynic’s teapot’ish looks, but I do have BREATHTAKING bulging muscles, which is just as well as the world needs the occasional ‘stud sub' to walk into the room. There are two of us, but we are not the same. Not to mention that it would be in direct infringement of OF’s T&C.

So, I hope that now I've put to bed once and for all these flattering (for Cynic) but pointless, I mean, baseless rumours..

🌻 Kindness 🌻

For a while now I've been thinking of leaving this site. For a while now I've felt criticised and judged and that's never comfortable. I get it. This is a goldfish bowl and space is tight in goldfish bowls, especially with those dodgy windmills and too much plankton. So, I was thinking of leaving but then a little reflection kicked in.

I joined this site almost 3 years ago to encounter a Dom, to serve a Master and I was lucky enough to meet him. Sadly it didn't work as we would have hoped, sometimes it doesn't work but I have no regrets, only happy memories. Service isn't easy, it's complicated because there are often agendas, sometimes uncertainties and online life is never easy. Throw in the demands of the heart, hopes, fears and the expectations of a busy life and then long-term service is made almost impossible.

Some make it. Lucky them.

I came here to find a Dom and Master, but I also came here to meet friends, to speak with like-minded men, to engage, to smile, to laugh, fundamentally to find companionship. Life is often lonely and we must all do what we can to keep the loneliness at bay. I take responsibility for my words and actions and I've apologised often. I've behaved poorly. I've admonished myself and begged for forgiveness. I've hurt good men, both sub and Dom and I've hurt myself far more.

Please, time is painfully short and this place should be full of possibility and hope. I'm often foolish but I have no axe to grind and no judgements to make. If you find happiness and contentment, even for a moment, then I'll celebrate with you. It's a difficult world so I beg you, let's all take a breath and be kind to each other.