But why don’t subs sinply say no to them or even block them? They serve them hard and only then they run away… uhm…

That's the point, Ital. Woof said himself that he didn't say no at the start and had to grow into it - with time

I think the answer to that Ital, is that they are people pleasers and very submissive- the kind of subs that would be a great asset and community member if given a chance, but who get overwhelmed with the amount of rejection they have to do up front- it doesn't feel good for them to say 'no' so often, and so fast- many don't until they are in a hole and the least confrontational option is to delete and run. I'm not attributing fault, they should absolutely learn to say no too, and it's great that we have many subs who *can say no and retain that level of control themselves, or have had the time to find a master they trust with relinquishing that control- but the way to learn that for those who haven't yet, probably isn't 'right in at the deep end, 30 messages and 10 game requests' I know of more than one sub who's said the same thing as Zal outlined after I referred them here- overwhelmed and chased off. That may be hot for some, but it is also a fact that it sends many running on day one, it's simply the truth- without pointing fingers to either party.I think the answer to that Ital, is that they are people pleasers and very submissive- the kind of subs that would be a great asset and community member if given a chance, but who get overwhelmed with...See more