Thought for the day: Doms, Subs and Switches. I hear you ask where are all the .....................s and I can't find a ................... We have to know our expectations and others of us may never meet. Our Mr Perfect, nether comes around and if you think he has 90% of the time you will find out later. There is something not quite right. The key is to accept what you can and be happy or accept nothing and be happy.