I think that joining a stable is something that should happen after a good connection is made. I see a lot of new members join a stable almost immediately and then get overwhelmed and leave the site. The stable allows the Dom to see tip balance and read messages and for a sub can provide security... Or mean that other Doms will no longer approach. That works when there is a good connection but can be used as a tool for manipulation too. A stable is not ownership but it can be a good symbol of ownership on site.I think that joining a stable is something that should happen after a good connection is made. I see a lot of new members join a stable almost immediately and then get overwhelmed and leave the site. ...See more

I love Phranklin's clever comment; good connection indeed & not just about how much money a sub gives!

Phranklin and Alex make some pertinent points about Stable life. I'm not a huge fan of a Stable, largely because I don't feel I need it, but it works for many and that's perfect for them. Stables are indicative, a reference point, a symbol, I think no more and no less than that.Phranklin and Alex make some pertinent points about Stable life. I'm not a huge fan of a Stable, largely because I don't feel I need it, but it works for many and that's perfect for them. Stables are ...See more