Do men from the UK and men from the US have a different idea of what being a "dom" is? I ask because I see so many men here doing what I would call "cosplay". I guess a dominant man is someone who a person could look up to. Or has attributes that make him manly. We have a saying here: lipstick on a pig, and that seems to apply to so many "men" Here. I think my next profile is going to be a ACTUAL pig in leather.l so I can raise the bar.