26 from USA. New-ish to findom but not to being a dom in general. I'm not exactly the kind of dom to flip you off and say "fuck you, pay me". I enjoy the build up, discovering our vibe and see where it goes and how far it goes. I enjoy the mental game, the control that the sub offers up. Especially when it has been manipulated and tricked out of it. Of course I'm also down for short term stuff too. Feel free to message me. I don't bite. Sometimes.
What I want
Looking for finsubs that are eager to please and can carry a conversation before I start to drain them dry
Hello everone, been a while. I had stepped away for some time to really reflect and think about why I wasn't enjoying my time. The site and its people...
It sometimes surprises me how much simple wisdom my m****r conveyed to me as a c***d, in this case, “Just be yourself.” I still don’t really know why that can be so hard to do, but I am as guilty as anyone of trying to fake it. I appreciate the reminder that it is indeed an unfortunate “trap” to do so.It sometimes surprises me how much simple wisdom my m****r conveyed to me as a c***d, in this case, “Just be yourself.” I still don’t really know why that can be so hard to do, but I am as guilty as a...See more
Hello my great community , i have a question : DOMINANCE is it mental (Brain) or physical (Muscles) ? give your opinions if possible. Long life to this site !!!
Honesty, as they always say, is the best policy. It's something I try to live up to, especially in spaces like this. I'm not the most fit person in he...
I think there is a lot that can be said about the mental aspect of any dom, but findom in particular. While I respect those who decide to go the blunt...
Control. It's a wonderfully fun thing. Some of us give it, and some like me, enjoy taking it. Seeing a sub squirm in a positive way as you flex the control and power you have over them, there is a sense of pride in that. Knowing that I'm getting under their skin, in their head. It's quite wonderful, and even more so the more eager you are about giving it up. So come now, open up and enjoy yourself. It's a lot more fun if you submit to the urges
Wonderful and positive sentiments Sir, only thing is if I dared to submit to all my urges I'd be lying in the gutter, tipless and topless, with an empty wine bottle. 🍾🍷🥴
Hey, sometimes that can be a fun thing. Nothing wrong with letting go every now and again. But also nice to see you understand your desires and what they could do
While I am a bit new to the findom scene, I am not new to the Dom scene. And frankly I'm not sure how I didn't stumble across this before. Findom, whe...
Hello world. New to this site but not to being a dom in general. Hope to meet new people and have a lot of fun with the right ones. Why don't you help give me a warm welcome?
United States, WV, Charleston 
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Oct 8AlexIt sometimes surprises me how much simple wisdom my m****r conveyed to me as a c***d, in this case, “Just be yourself.” I still don’t really know why that can be so hard to do, but I am as guilty as anyone of trying to fake it. I appreciate the reminder that it is indeed an unfortunate “trap” to do so.It sometimes surprises me how much simple wisdom my m****r conveyed to me as a c***d, in this case, “Just be yourself.” I still don’t really know why that can be so hard to do, but I am as guilty as a...See moreYou need to sign in to comment
Mar 28I would say mostly mental but sometimes a firm hand is also required so occasionally a physical element also comes into play.
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May 27 '23Only a few hours to go. This is potentially a life changing poll for me - VOTE NOW!
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May 10 '23Welcome to OF Sir. It is sure you will find very suitable faggots begging to serve you Sir. Your blog is great Sir🙇‍♂️You need to sign in to comment
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